I think I got an STI from having sex with my hot colleague — should I tell my wife? – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I CLICK so well with a girl at work that we ended up having sex.

But I’ve got a nasty souvenir and don’t know how I’m going to explain this to my wife.

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I’ve been married for seven years. I’m 30 and my wife is 31. I love her but the spark seems to have gone from our marriage.

I work for a big online distribution company in their accounts department and a new girl joined us three months ago.

She’s 25, single and all the lads in the depot fancy her. She is very attractive with long hair and a figure most women would die for. I enjoy spending time with her and we just get on.

I knew from the start I fancied her but felt she was out of my league and, anyway, I’m married.

We were both asked to do some overtime before our company audit and we worked late together one night. The company ordered us pizza and a couple of beers and arranged for a taxi home.

We had a laugh as we worked and then shared a cab home because we live very near to each other. She invited me in for a night cap and I accepted.

We sat together on her sofa and drank wine. She then started doing an impression of our boss and looked so adorable that I went in for a kiss.

She didn’t push me away and put her hands inside my shirt.

We went to her bedroom and she pushed me back on the bed. She seemed insatiable, pulling my clothes off and then straddling me.

I didn’t regret it. It was amazing, like the passionate sex I’d had on my honeymoon in the dim and distant past.

That was a month ago and I didn’t feel guilty until I got a burning sensation yesterday when I went to the loo. I Googled the symptoms and I think this girl has given me chlamydia.

My wife used to work in an STI clinic so she’s hot on this sort of thing. What should I do?


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DEIDRE SAYS: If you have had unprotected sex with your wife since you cheated, then you will have to be honest. She could have chlamydia without obvious symptoms and it can lead to infertility if left untreated.

If you haven’t had sex with your wife since the night you cheated, you may not need to confess.

You must get a test urgently but the coronavirus crisis is affecting some sexual health services.

Phone the Sexual Health Line 0300 123 7123 for help. If it is chlamydia, antibiotics should clear it rapidly.

Either way, this experience is your wake-up call that cheating is not the answer.

Talk to your wife about repowering your relationship. My e-leaflets Relationship MOT and Saving Your Sex Life might be of use.

You must also tell your colleague, as she needs treatment too.

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